NHR, very nice ride you got there, and by the picture, like Smitty are good to go on your "Snow...eh...Shiny New Glide"...! Enjoy it and wishing you many long and warmer rides...! Once you change the tranny fluid for some 100% Synthetic, possibly 75W for the cold, you should be okay finding neutral.
Also my right hand seems to get numb alot more than any other bike I have ever rode, I had the willy G grips put on but am now starting to think I should have gone with the Kuryakyn ISO grips as they are much heavier and beefier than the willy G's and would maybe help eliminate this numbness.