thanks jack, dolt, brian, others. here's what i think is correct about the 2002 flhri drivetrain, based on comments, looking at exploded schematics from ronnie's, jake's glidepro videos, and other threads.
the engine, tranny, swingarm, and rear wheel are basically one solid unit in terms of lateral movement (like you said, Brain). that unit has four connection points to the chassis. the front motor mount, the top motor mount, the ends of the swingarm, and the rear shocks. there shouldn't be any adjustment that can change the lateral angle between the tranny and the swingarm. the swingarm bearings are pressed into the swingarm tube and have metal spacers on both sides of each bearing and then a large nonmetalic spacer up against the rear fork bracket that the ends of the swingarm sit in. somebody correct me if i'm wrong here. older models didn't have the bearings and that was a problem because of slop caused by rubber bushings.
changing the lateral axis of the drivetrain by adjusting the front motor mount won't change the angle between the tranny pulley and the rear wheel pulley unless there's abnormal play in the swingarm, and that would most likely be caused by a shot swingarm bearing.
adjusting the front motor mount is done to change the angle of the rear tire in relation to the front tire. and that can be accomplished because there shouldn't be any lateral play in the engine/tranny/swingarm unit. (but it does mean that you're pushing the ends of the swingarm forward or backward in the rear fork brackets to achieve that change in the angle of the rear wheel.)
the only way i can think of to change the angle between the tranny pulley and the rear wheel pulley is to change the angle of the rear wheel axle. man, wish it didn't have that axle cam. that is a funky setup. i may play around with ideas for drilling and tapping the end of the right side of the swingarm to install an adjusting screw for positioning the right side of the axle.
dolt, i'm back to you. pulleys are parallel but offset? is this the cause of the abnormal belt wear? my rear wheel sits to the left side of wheel well, like your before you changed it. how do you move the wheel to the center and still have the brake caliper and rotor (and beltguard) aligned properly?
bottom line. i'll put the new belt on. wait for the weather to get out and ride. recheck my wheel alignment. maybe replace and readjust the front motor mount. and then see how the bike tracks and how the belt wears
have put the new tranny pulley on (my main objective). seals replaced. still have to pull and replace the tranny shifter seal. no plans to pull the stator.
thanks everybody.