This may be sacrilegious here on this site, but go buy a Honda Rebel and learn to ride. Take the rider's course. Make all your newbie mistakes on the Rebel. After a solid year or 6,000 miles, buy the most basic HD you can find. Adjust up to the heavier bike. After a year on that, buy whatever you really want.
Back in college, my first bike was a Kawasaki KZ400. First time out, I pushed it over to a very quiet street with no through traffic. Fired it up, gave it a little gas, popped the clutch, slid off the seat landing on my backside, and watched the bike wobble down the road and fall over! Would have been heart breaking on a $15K HD!! On my $1,500 Kawasaki, just a few expletives and go shut the thing off. Over the course of the next couple of years, I made some other boo boos. But it never really bothered me. It was my training bike.
TQ
Back in college, my first bike was a Kawasaki KZ400. First time out, I pushed it over to a very quiet street with no through traffic. Fired it up, gave it a little gas, popped the clutch, slid off the seat landing on my backside, and watched the bike wobble down the road and fall over! Would have been heart breaking on a $15K HD!! On my $1,500 Kawasaki, just a few expletives and go shut the thing off. Over the course of the next couple of years, I made some other boo boos. But it never really bothered me. It was my training bike.
TQ