I am 6'-6" with a 36" inseam and have gone from stock seat to Sundowner to Tallboy. I also have the Kuryakin 3" extended controls on an 09 FXDC. For me, it is not so much that the Tallboy is ugly (it's not that bad) but that it makes me feel like I am riding way up "on" the bike and I don't like that feeling. I find that it doesn't give me enough extra leg room to make the feeling of sitting too high worth it. Personally, I would go with the Sundowner. It may not give you quite the legroom that you want, but it looks and feels better. I'll post a picture of my FXDC with the Tallboy seat on it when I can get to it and you all can be the judges of how ugly it is or isn't.