I use the NGK Iridium spark plug in my 08 Softail with no issues. No codes etc.
Have had many bikes over the years and ran NGK Iridium plugs in all of them. They made the most difference in the old point systems as they provided a better spark.
I agree with you comments on iridium fine wire plugs, that said, you can get the same results using a Autolite Iridium plug for 1/3 the cash outlay and be putting an american made spark plug in your american made bike