I do not understand what the 'reluctance to listen' is referring to, other than advice of a full dyno, which I cannot accomplish at the immediate time, and indicated would occur at a later date (there are no dyno tuners that I know of other than the HD dealer around here). all I had asked was the feasibility of installing the rushmore cam and increasing to 103, if it was worth it, or just staying 96 with the cam, and using the orange box to install a map that would allow me to run the bike without burning it up until I could get it to a tuner/dyno. I just liked the way the '15 rode, and wanted to duplicate it as close as possible with what I have.
The gent I purchased the bike from claimed nothing was done to it except a 'stage one', consisting of a big sucker clone, aftermarket pipes, and the orange tuner box I was given. He informed me that he took the bike to dealer for all maintenance performed on it. I have since been unable to contact him concerning this bike. It currently has 7000 miles on it.
AS it stands the bike runs ok with no decel pop (very slight gurgle), and no "lean surge" at cruising speed. just wanted alittle more from the 96, that I experienced from the '15.
Well, based on your comment that you want "a little more boost", the Andrews 48 and a follow up dyno tune was suggested as the solution. That's not JMHO and if you contact any one of the porters/builders Bodeen listed in his post #3 you will find that they share the opinion that the 48 is the best or at worst, one of the best cam sets for a bolt in cam only upgrade.
WRT your question about the modified cams for the '15 models you should know that because of the larger bore of a 103" motor and the added compression is what you are feeling when riding a 2015 model. Installing that cam in a 96" motor will not produce the seat of the pants response that you experienced with the 2015 model. As a matter of fact, the seat of the pants feel could be just the opposite. I don't know the profile of the "Rushmore" cam but will find it so I can speak more intelligently on the subject. But, I can tell you with certainty that the results you are seeking are achievable with an aftermarket cam, the SE255 or even the SE204 but not with the Rushmore cam. You were also mis-informed about the 48 cam profile, it is completely different from the 21 cam profile; much more than a "21 on stilts".
You continue to refer to "maps" but the point has been made that there are no factory maps other than the Stage uploads which do nothing more than add a bit of fuel and, in some cases, increase the rev limit from 5800 to 6000 rpms. Additionally, the factory uploads, or flashes, are designed to work with OEM equipment, i.e., exhaust and intake. Your Stage I components are aftermarket so the Stage I flash is not compatible with your equipment and I am surprised that you don't have some decel popping.
We need to clear up whether you have the SERT or the SEST; I am thinking you have the SEST as I don't recall ever seeing a SERT with an orang box; mine is black. However, if you do have the SERT, which has been succeeded by the TTS Mastertune, there are compatible maps on the TTS website that you could download and install after installing the 48 or whatever cam you choose. While there may be some driveability issue such as some decel pop, rough idle, poor fuel economy, etc., you can run such a map without damaging the motor or any systems. However, I would suggest a dyno tune ASAP to optimize performance and fuel economy. I see that you are in Akansas? Recently, on my advice, one of your kinsmen installed a Stage IV 103 kit on his new Breakout and rode from Arkansas to my neck of the woods to get his bike tuned by one of the best in the country. A bit of a ride and he did have to stay over night but when it was done, he was all grins and found the trip and the expense worth it. There is a tuner in Louisana, forget the name but I will get if for you that may be an option. Believe me, the right tune is everything; you won't believe the difference it will make. If you have the SEST, the TTS maps may be compatible with the SEST but I am not sure.
If budget is an issue, a set of 48 cams, SE adjustable pushrods, new lifters if more than 25K miles on your current lifters and a dyno tune will achieve the results you are looking for and it sounds like you are capable of taking that on as a DIY project with minimal down time. When the "new" wears off, increasing displacement to 103" or 107", head work and a different cam set will take things to another level.:hii