Surely you understand that these comments are made in jest?
I am often asked, "Why are you riding a girl's bike?" - uh, because I'm a girl. And, "Are you ready to trade for a bigger bike?" - Why? You want my Sporty?
But these same guys love my bike, the look and the sound of it. Would they like to ride it, yes? Daily? Probably not. But that's okay. I don't want their bike, or any other one right now.
And Harley has recently put out some bikes that don't look like Harleys...the Sportster is not one of those.