Aftermarket guage if it is still available looks sharp and comes in billet/chrome w/silver bezel, but definately sounds like oil pan mounting the sensor is preferred, though it probably is not immersed in oil, as HD is "dry sump" so would just get the splashing and agitated oil bath in there (probably good enough for temp reading).
Analog Dipstick Guage works fine, but I have only had it on for 7 months so far. But, remember it reads the temperature in the oil tank "remote bag" which will be running 25-35 deg F cooler even at full operating temperature because the 2.5 quarts of oil stored in the reservoir has plenty of time to cool down and the fact it being "--last part of the oil cooling circulation circuit."
FYI, it never got overy 200 deg F on the hottest day I saw 105 deg F, when riding two up in the stifiling heat of the central Simi Valley/Chatsworth area in California. Only way I knew it bike was hot when parked on side stand, had a little "weeping" oil overflow and temperature did not rise higher after being parked for about an hour.