Yes. It is tough, may God give you and your family the strength you need. :s You will be in our prayers here.
I don't want to take away from your thread, but I will update that at least my cousin is being treated, there is still some growth, but they are treating it and the family is praying.
We are here for you when you need us. This group has helped me 'escape' in a sense during the hard times.
Take care.