My take on these bearings going out at low milages,is that the inner spacer is the wrong length.
When the axle is torqued up,the inner spacer,outer spacers,and bearing inner races should form one solid tube.
Any side thrust should be taken by the bearing design,hence the use of deep grooved bearings,not just any ball race.
If the inner spacer is too short,when the axle nut is torqued,side load is placed on the inner bearing race.If you paid $200 for the bearings,they'd still give out,they're not designed for that sort of force.
I'm convinced that the inner spacer should be equal to,or a thou or two more,than the distance between the bottom of the bearing housings.
The factory installation tool,when inserting the second bearing,bears on the inner and outer race,so it stops when the inner race meets the inner spacer.
It would seem to me that if it just pressed on the outer race,as a socket would,there'd be no problem just keeping going till the bearing touched the bottom of the housing.They must expect it to touch the inner spacer before this happens.The manual,if I remember correctly,even tells you what order to fit them in.
If my logic is flawed,please tell me.I'm not a Harley Tech,I've just been fixing stuff for 40 odd years,and every day is still a school day.That's why I'm here.
As for bearing quality,there's plenty of bearing suppliers out there where you can get a top spec bearing for less than dealer prices.Another example is fitting Torrington inner cam bearings to TC's instead of the poorer factory supplied INA's.