Post the good dealers that you have had an experience with and what they did for you.
Warren H-D, Cortland, OH - hauled me in with a broken clutch cable, turned me around quickly and never charged for the tow. Also hauled me in when I screwed up a maintenance item. Didn't charge for that tow either and I bought the bike elsewhere. No problem mounting and balancing rubber I've bought elsewhere.
Brunswick H-D - Troy, NY - rolled downhill into their parking lot on a Sunday with a dead stator, dead bike. Owner lives on the premises and hauled me to a motel and came and got me in the morning. Had me on the road by 10 am and interceded with the MoCo to get me a $100 Goodwill fix on a recently out-of-warranty bike.
H-D of Macon, GA - turned me around quickly with a dead stator 5 months after the first episode. The MoCo picked up the entire out-of-warranty tab as the 2000 40-amp stators were discovered to have chronic problems.
Pikeville, KY H-D - after getting hauled in the middle of the night and leaving a voicemail telling 'em why my bike was sitting outside their shop after hours I was on the road by 10 am the next morning. The owner picked me up at the motel and made sure everything done in the shop was up to snuff before letting me leave.
Carleton's H-D - Mantua, OH - I've bought 2 or 3 bikes here due to their flexibility. No salesman, managers or other fluff, you deal with the person who has their name on the store. They've done numerous good turns for me although they know I usually buy parts and accessories from discounters online.
Incidently, none of these shops were new mega-boutiques. All have been in business with the same owners and most of the same employees for years and years. As my experiences with the newer giant mega-dealers have left me cold and unimpressed I hope wherever I am when I really need a dealer has a family-owned smaller shop nearby.
TL
One more goodie I almost forget:
Tilley's H-D in Statesville, NC - When weather prevents me from riding from NE Ohio for Bikeweek I've hauled a bike in a truck and unloaded in Statesville. Tilley's not only allows me to leave my vehicle their, they've unloaded and loaded me, washed the winter salt and crud off my bike, alerted me to recalls or upgraded ECM downloads that were available and generally treated me like family. And never charged a dime for anything! Wish I lived closer so I could do all my business there!